“In the absence of love & belonging, there is always suffering - Brene Brown

I was talking to my partner about this on our drive yesterday discussing what we thought it meant to us.

For her, it was the deep importance of expressing love & having a sense of belonging to people you love and who love you, belonging to a community ❤️

Which I totally agreed with as community is what most people are searching for with a lot of big decisions in life - Without it we can feel very lost. 😞

I also felt like it resonated with my last post on the Chameleon archetype, shape shifting with those around you to ‘fit in’ can result in never feeling a sense of belonging.

A sense of belonging to yourself is important, aligning your values to your outer world, attracting your tribe and creating a sense of belonging in a meaningful way. If you build your community on the premise of ‘fitting in’ you will only ever attract people who are there to challenge you rather than love you or support you.

If you haven’t found YOUR true self love & belonging first, then you will always struggle to find a community you vibrate with.

How can the universe give you something if you aren’t asking for it? 🙋🏻‍♂️

What you are searching for outside of you doesn’t exist until you create it within🔥

Create a healthy loving relationship with yourself, your hobbies and lifestyle choices - then the people you need will show up for you.

Trust the mystery of it all and let go..

Choc x